Valentine’s Day is Sunday, so there really is no reason not to create your own romantic dinner minus the cramped tables and exorbitant prices. Luckily for all of you non-cooks out there this three course Italian-esque feast practically cooks itself.

Grocery List

Romaine lettuce

Croutons

Caesar Salad dressing

1 pound ground beef – meatloaf mix, with pork and beef, is also a tasty option.

1 egg

1/4 cup of Italian breadcrumbs

Parmesan cheese – I use the kind that comes in a plastic container in the grocery store, but if you want to be extra fancy, buy a small block of it.

Milk – just a splash

Salt and Pepper

One box of spaghetti

Jar of spaghetti sauce – Try any sauce that looks tasty, and I’ll tell you how to fancy it up.

1 cup of chocolate chips

1 cup of heavy cream

Strawberries

Optional: bacon, garlic, fresh basil, fresh parsley, onion, Ancho Chili powder, Cayenne

All of the optional ingredients are based on personal taste. I am not a fan of onion in my ground beef, but if the love of your life is also a lover of onions, then it might be the perfect addition.

For the meatballs: Place your ground beef, one egg, a splash of milk, 1/4 cup of bread crumbs, a few shakes of parmesan cheese, and a little bit of salt and pepper into a bowl. If you’re a fan of bacon, dice some raw bacon and throw it in the mix. You could also add some sautéed garlic or fresh parsley. I am a purist when it comes to food, so I tend to keep my meals simple. But the bacon does make the meatballs rather tasty.

Mix it all up with your hands, or a spoon, if you feel so inclined to be neat. Form the meat into balls. I like to make mine a little smaller than golf balls. Size does not matter, when it comes to making meatballs. The smaller balls will cook faster. Bake the meatballs on a cookie sheet at 350 degrees Fahrenheit for 15 minutes, turn them and bake until they are completely cooked.

For the pasta: Start a pot of water for the noodles. When it comes to a boil, pour about half of the box into the water, and turn the stove down a little so it doesn’t boil over. Cook the pasta until it is done. I am not a fan of al dente pasta, but there is nothing worse than overdone squishy pasta. Don’t forget about the pasta, and drain when it is finished

For the salad: Cut the head of romaine in half and half again. Start at the top of the lettuce and chop at about half inch increments for the perfect bite size pieces of lettuce. Add the croutons and maybe some Parmesan cheese. Dress with Caesar dressing or serve with the dressing on the side.

For the Dessert: Pour the heavy cream into a pot. If you are feeling a little bold add a pinch or too of Ancho Chili powder or cayenne powder. This adds a little bit of a kick to the chocolate and cuts the sweetness. Chili powder is also rumored to be an aphrodisiac. Pour one cup of chocolate chips into a bowl that will be big enough to hold the cup of heavy cream as well. Bring the heavy cream to a boil. Pour over the chocolate, and use a whisk to combine. Start at the center with slow steady strokes. As you begin to see the chocolate and cream coming together broaden your strokes till all of the cream and chocolate have come together to make a smooth delicious chocolate Ganache. Wash the strawberries and serve the Ganache warm with the strawberries on the side, ready to be dipped.

Putting it all together: Heat up the sauce. You can add fresh parsley, fresh basil, sautéed garlic, or some diced onion to the sauce. Make it your own and taste it to see what it needs. Add the cooked meatballs to the sauce. Serve a nice big plate of spaghetti with the meatballs on top. It’s Valentine’s Day, so share a plate. And maybe, just maybe you’ll start eating the same noodle, meet in the middle of the table, and sneak an adorably Disney worthy kiss.

The most dangerous thing about making a movie like “Valentine’s Day” is the cast. Ensembles are a tricky thing and that amount of star power in one film can prove disastrous if not handled properly (see: 2006’s “Bobby”). It can be done though, as proven by last year’s mega-hit “He’s Just Not That Into You”. Luckily “Valentine’s Day”, despite being filled to the brim with Hollywood A-listers, avoided egos and overcrowding. Everyone put forth a good performance, seemingly aware that they were a part of a bigger picture rather than trying to stand out for themselves. From the hysterically awkward (Topher Grace and Anne Hathaway, Taylor Swift and Taylor Lautner) to the heartbreaking (Shirley Maclaine and Hector Elizondo, Jennifer Garner and Patrick Dempsey) “Valentine’s Day” wields its all-star cast impeccably. Garry Marshall, director of “Pretty Woman” and “The Princess Diaries” series executed exactly what the trailers have been calling “Valentine’s Day” – the perfect date movie.

The second second most dangerous thing is providing a feasible plot. Am I really to believe that all of these people end up with a happy ending just because Hallmark overpriced their chocolate that day? Does someone actually think that I am going to buy Jessica Biel and Jessica Alba being alone on such an occasion? While Biel does play the stereotypical single, bitter “I hate V-day with a burning passion” workaholic, all other skepticisms were canceled with an unexpected dose of realism (not to say that no clichés or cheesy gestures occurred, it is a romantic comedy after all). It was nice to see that a movie marketed as the ultimate ode to love didn’t try to market the emotion itself as perfect. Hearts were broken and not purely to realize that there were better pairings, but to show that sometimes love actually sucks and it can’t always conquer all –- sometimes it takes a little of your own effort as well.

(spoilers ahead, so stop reading if spoilers get you all bent out of shape!)

Case in point: When 18-year-old Grace (Emma Roberts) decides to lose her virginity to her high school boyfriend on Valentine’s Day, she is expecting the act to create a magical, almost spiritual, connection between the two to keep them together when they separate for college. What ensues is possibly the most humorous scene in the entire film and more accurately reflects the most common real life experience – the first time is more awkward than magical 99.9 percent of the time and no amount of planning is going to alleviate that. It would have been easier, and certainly more romantic, to give the young sweethearts a flawless, cliché union, but instead Grace develops a more realistic insight about the situation, which if all teens possessed, we might not have season two of “16 and Pregnant”.

Grace and her boyfriend are amongst a series of couples and singles in Los Angeles that “Valentine’s Day” follows on the most romantic day of the year, each intricately threaded to each other via plotted social or occupational relationships. That kind of threading is vital in films of this nature so to give the plot some continuity rather than being jerked around between unrelated vignettes.

Trailers have been advertising Julia Roberts as the flagship storyline of the movie, but actually she’s just the most famous name. Punk’d creator/heartthrob Ashton Kutcher is actually the central line of the movie, playing Reed Bennett, a heart-prominently-on-sleeve florist. Kutcher and the workers in his shop serve as the springboard for the rest of the romantic tales and woes of the film. Most notably of the woes is 7-year-old Edison who desperately needs to tell his mystery valentine he loves her with only thirteen dollars to his name. Edison just goes to show that love can’t survive without perseverance, and that little kid romances will never fail to be absolutely adorable and completely endearing. The incurable romantic outlook works well for Kutcher while giving him the tools to act as glue for the plot’s interweaving storylines.

“Valentine’s Day” is a story about love, in all forms, shapes and sizes. There’s laughter, moments to get choked up over, unexpected twists, good guys and bad guys. With a killer cast and a creative, well organized script, “Valentine’s Day” is set to become this year’s ultimate romantic comedy – and what would go better with your overpriced chocolate this weekend?

The Beehive:  Valentine’s Day 3 Days of Luv’n
541 Tremont Street Boston MA 02116
This three day long love fest includes Valentine’s Day inspired food, cocktails, and live performances.  The weekend long celebration begins on February 12th and ends on the 14th.  Reservations are highly encouraged and can be made by calling 617-423-0069. http://www.beehiveboston.com/

Boston Harbor Cruises: Valentine’s Day Dinner Cruise
1 Long Wharf Boston, Ma 02110
February 13th from 8pm-11pm
Price: $99.95/person
Price includes: Catered dinner buffet, full cash bar, champagne toast, complimentary photo keepsake, and one of Boston’s best DJs.
Reservations are required and can be made by calling 877-SEE-WHALE or by going to Bostonharborcruises.com

33 Restaurant and Lounge
33 Stanhope St Boston, Ma 02116
February 12th – February 14th 5pm – 11pm
Enjoy a five-course prix-fixe dinner that includes a Seared Duck Breast with pink lentils and pomegranate glaze.  Dinner package is $85 per person, or $125 with a special wine pairing.  All couples will receive a box of handmade truffles and ladies will also receive a red rose. http://33restaurant.com/

Top of the Hub
800 Boylston St Boston, Ma 02199
February 13th 4pm – 11pm and February 14th 12pm – 10pm
Top of the Hub is offering a four-course prix-fixe dinner menu at $250 per couple.  There will also be a vegetarian menu made available.  Reservations are needed A.S.A.P. and may be made on their website: www.topofthehub.net

Casablanca
40 Brattle St Cambridge, Ma 02138
February 12th – February 14th for dinner
Casablanca will be offering a three-course prix-fixe menu at $55 per person.  At $80/person you will receive the prix-fixe dinner with wine pairing which includes 1/2 glass with each course as well as a glass of champagne. http://www.casablanca-restaurant.com/

Temple Bar
1688 Massachusetts Ave Cambridge, Ma 02138
February 12th – February 14th*
Three-course prix-fixe on Valentine’s Day for $49 per person additional wine pairing is available for another $20 per person.  Make your reservation now by calling 617-547-5055. Limited prix-fixe options are available Friday and Saturday night. http://www.templebarcambridge.com/

Rowes Wharf Sea Grille
70 Rowes Wharf Boston, Ma 02110
February 14th
For $70 per person you can enjoy a special four-course prix-fixe dinner which includes a champagne toast.  Rowes Wharf Sea Grille overlooks Boston Harbor making it the ultimate setting for you and your valentine. http://www.roweswharfseagrille.com/

McCormick & Schmick’s Seafood Restaurants
34 Columbus Ave Boston, Ma 02116                                                                                                                                                                        1 Faneuil Hall Market Place North Market Building Boston, Ma 02109
February 12th – February 14th
Create the perfect pair for $29.95, deserts range from $3.95 – $6.95.  You can make your reservations right on the website or take advantage of the Valentine’s Concierge Service.  When making your reservation ask the hostess about personalized menus, flowers, and more. http://www.mccormickandschmicks.com/

dbar
1236 Dorchester Ave, Dorchester, Ma 02125
February 12th – February 14th
A delicious four-course prix-fixe dinner is available Valentine’s Day weekend for $59 per person.  Meals include “Honey Bunny” (rabbit rillettes on Brioche toast), grilled Meyer beef rib “Eye Love You” and “Chocolate Love Affair” (chocolate fondant with chocolate ice cream) for dessert.  Reservations are suggested and can be made by calling 617-265-4490 or by emailing info@dbarboston.com  http://www.dbarboston.com/

Tasca Tapas Restaurant

1612 Commonwealth Ave Brighton, Ma 02135                                                                                                                                                   A Valentine’s Gala menu which includes a four-course prix-fixe dinner for $59 per person (includes a bottle of wine per couple or a pitcher of Sangria).  Pre-theatre price is $49 per person for reservations made between 5pm and 6:15pm.  Reservations will be taken at 15 minute intervals from 5pm to 11:30pm.  Please email reservation requests. http://tascarestaurant.com/

Hallmark is at it’s happiest and the red ink on everyone’s printer is being drained.

So, I think there should be some tips for the broke-yet-happy couples in the world as well as the single folks out there who might need some helpful hints on how to enjoy a holiday that is basically designed solely for the happy couples of the world.

Here goes.

Broke yet happy couples

Make homemade chocolates. Easy enough. Sure, you have to buy the funny little plastic molds and the bags of chocolates. But they’re kind of fun to make. Who doesn’t like melting chocolates and actually having a reason to do it? You can get fancy and get different colored chocolates. Make all kinds of sappy, sentimental, sweet-toothed treats.

Go-to option #2: flowers. So freakin’ simple, yet so damn effective.

OK so I’m going to go a little out-of-the box on this one. I’m just going to put it out there. Feel free to throw it back if you aren’t feeling it. But listen. If you’re really broke and you can’t afford the candy or the flowers or the nice dinner out, then just skip all that and go for dessert. And by dessert I mean a can of whipped cream. I’m not going to tell you what to do with the whipped cream. I have faith that you will figure it out all on your own.

If you aren’t into that sort of thing, I kind of like the idea of funny gifts for this holiday. For me, it just seems hard to take the holiday so seriously when pictures of fat, semi-naked cupids are staring at me. And those stupid message hearts. Sugary goodness, yes. Easy to take seriously, no. Besides, real gifts are for birthdays, anniversaries, and that jolly holiday season that I love so much and seriously miss already. But then I think about spring coming and I’m happy again. Unlike all those unsmiling Bostonians out there…

OK, so this one came to me after a recent alumni weekend in which my girls and I stayed in a hotel for free because one of my roomie’s father’s gets free hotel rooms as part of his work benefits. Does someone you love get free hotel rooms? If yes, give them a call. A free hotel room is a free hotel room. And Valentine’s Day is all about being with each other, not how much money you spend while you’re together. Feel free to use that line when your girl/guy yells at you for being cheap.

All my single ladies (and men)

How to deal? Few methods.

There’s the buddy system. As in grab your closest single buddy and have a fun day together. There’s the strength in numbers plan if you have a solid group of single friends that you can get together with.

But, honestly, don’t feel like you even have to acknowledge the holiday. Treat it like another Arbor Day: a holiday that generally goes unnoticed until a week later when you look at the calendar.

This year the big day falls on a Sunday. You know what Sunday is in grad school language? Homework day! Yay! Blech. Gag me. No, but seriously. It’s good that it’s on a Sunday. Do your homework that’s due the next day that you’ve been putting off all week (crap, there goes the New Year’s resolution), hit the gym, do some grocery shopping. It’s a Sunday. Treat it as such.

Don’t want to ignore Big Red? Then don’t. Power to ya. Nothing wrong with finding yourself a date for the day or night. This is your chance to score a free meal, free candy, maybe even free flowers, all because it’s a holiday that you personally have nothing to do with.

So yeah, for those of you actually celebrating the holiday, Valentine’s Day definitely doesn’t have to be a break-the-bank kind of day. A good rule of thumb to follow: the cornier something is, the more sentimental it might turn out to be, and the cheaper it probably is.

And in case anyone is wondering, I enjoy chocolate with caramel and yellow tulips.

How does this apply to gaming?

Atlus today revealed a Valentine’s Day in-game World Tendency Event. Much like the Halloween engagement, the world will either go dark or light. But this time around the choice is yours, because, and I’m quoting Atlus here, “Since V Day is somewhat divisive, in that some people feel bright and happy and others not so much, we’re going to leave which way we actually shift to you…”

Love, or not?

The choices are:

Atlus Loves Me (White World Tendency)

Atlus Loves Me Not (Black World Tendency)

Cast your vote today by following this link and if you’re in love, enjoy it. If you’re single, well, enjoy that too. Both have their ups and downs, ins and outs.

The day that some swoon over and others loathe. Whether you’re in a relationship or flying solo, the day is as full of as many expectations and dilemmas as the local pharmacy is with aisles and aisles of cheap chocolates and cutesy heart-shaped trinkets. Here’s Blast’s take on how to handle some not-so-sweet Valentine’s Day situations.

If you or your significant other (S.O.) is sick…and not with the love bug

Take this opportunity to show how much you care. Snuggle up on separate chairs and enjoy a night in for a change. Make chicken soup and watch a movie. Extra points for giving a back rub! Are you the one that’s sick? Send this article to your S.O. and cross your finger that he or she takes the hint. Oh, and no sex tonight. Instead, choose a night you’ll both be free when that miserable cold or flu is likely to be gone. Plan a romantic dinner in and some extra time between the sheets — it’ll give you both something to look forward to.

If you’re so broke that the Dollar Store is your new Macy’s

In this economy, you’re not alone. The easiest solution is to get crafty: Make your sweetie a card and make his or her favorite dinner. Then uncork your favorite $6 bottle of vino and give your SO a full body massage. Use oil. and light candles to really get in the mood. Spending ridiculous amounts of money on awesome gifts like gorgeous jewelry or his favorite sold-out video game is lame, right? Right?!

If you and your S.O. just started dating, so this holiday could make it or break it

No pressure! This is a tricky holiday for new romances; if you overdo it, you look like a desperate psycho, but if you blow it off, your S.O. might question how seriously you are taking the relationship. Keep it sweet and simple. Guys, take her out to eat at her favorite place and don’t forget the flowers. Channel your feminine side and be romantic! Girls, bake him his favorite cookies or flavor of cupcakes. Don’t, we repeat don’t, get him anything cutesy, like a scrapbook of the three amazing weeks you’ve spent together unless you want week four to be the last.

If you promised another couple that you’d have a romantic double-date, but the thought of watching them feed each other and play footsie makes you and your S.O. want to hurl

The solution to getting some precious alone time on V-Day in this situation is simple: lie. Feign illness. Just mention the Swine Flu and they’ll practically beg you to ditch the plans! Plan on a date in the future so they don’t suspect a thing.

If you and your S.O. are in a fight

Big problem, or perfect timing? Two words: MAKE-UP SEX. Screw all the lovey-dovey crap and get down to the dirty business. Use chocolate, caramel and whipped cream in the bedroom. Do things that those so-sickeningly-cute-they-never-fight couples would blush about. By the end of the night, you two won’t even remember what you were fighting about.

If Cupid’s arrow completely missed you this year

If you’re brave enough to spend V-Day alone, the solution for lonely guys is pretty easy: porn, pizza and beer. Ladies, spend the day celebrating you — the hot, sexy, single you. Go shopping, go to the spa, or arrange a girls’ night with some other single gal pals. Make Cosmos and watch your favorite “breakup” episodes of Sex and the City, or a bunch of horror flicks – especially ones in which hard-bodied lovers die slow, horrible deaths.

See? Valentines Day can be a love-fest for everyone, no matter what your relationship status on Facebook says! Just get creative and remember: there’s always next year.

I’m talking about Valentine’s Day, and if you’re in love with, or want to be in love with a fellow nerd/gamer this year, 80sTees.com has a plentiful offering of goodies.

Keep the sun at bay...in style.

The Web site, a digital marketplace brimming full with thousands of items from TV shows, movies, cartoons, comics, and video games, should have something for your special someone, unless he or she is in to High School Musical, in which case, GTFO of that relationship.

From the neon Sonic the Hedgehog and “Don’t Make Me Go Zelda On You!” T-shirt to even a full Mario suit (possibly for that plumber role-play…), the site should have something you’re looking for.

Head on over to the video game section of 80sTees.com to get started!

Is Mario getting lucky with Peach??

Ingrid Michaelson – “Breakable” from Original Signal on Vimeo.

In the spirit of Valentine’s Day, Michaelson has also has a new cover of the song “Can’t Help Falling In Love” from her latest album “Be OK.”

Die Alone – Ingrid Michaelson

For more on Ingrid Michaelson, visit www.ingridmichaelson.com.

Even those who fall into the awkward I-don’t-know-if-we’ve-been-dating-long-enough-to-make-a-big-deal-out-of-Valentine’s-Day gray area can fall back on any number of “previous engagement” excuses should the need for nonchalance arise.

But for some, it doesn’t matter on which square of the calendar the dreaded V-Day falls. For those of you unlucky ones still nursing a wounded heart, there’s nothing like a depressing love song to remind you that we’ve all been there.

As our Valentine’s gift to you, we at Blast have selected — in a completely subjective and non-scientific process — a smattering of songs to play alongside that montage of the bliss-heartbreak trajectory that you can’t get out of your head. And we’ve handily broken them down into categories based on the five stages of grief (some are more popular than others)! So, whether you’re pining over the one that got away or cringing over the one that never should have gotten to you in the first place, crank up your iPod and sing it out. Lord knows you’ve got nothing better to do this Saturday!

Denial: The shell-shocked stage of still believing your ex will come waltzing back through the door, begging for your forgiveness on his or her knees. Other symptoms may include keeping framed pictures, clothes, toothbrushes, etc.

“Maybe Someday,” The Cure
“Strange and Beautiful,” Aqualung
“Always,” Blink-182
“You Really Got A Hold On Me,” Smokey Robinson (or Cyndi Lauper’s significantly more melancholy version if you’re looking for the fast track to Depression)
“Against All Odds,” Phil Collins
“Unchained Melody,” The Righteous Brothers
“Cannonball,” Damien Rice
“Still Loving You,” The Scorpions
“Say It Isn’t So,” The Outfield
“With Or Without You,” U2
“Another Perfect Day,” American Hi-Fi

Anger: Hey, you know what all those pictures and clothes are great for? A bonfire! At this point, it doesn’t even matter if that (insert vulgar insult here) comes back, you wouldn’t give them the time of day.

“Take Another Little Piece Of My Heart,” Janis Joplin
“My Happy Ending,” Avril Lavigne
“Long Way to Happy,” Pink
“Before He Cheats,” Carrie Underwood

Bargaining: But maybe if they radically changed their political views and quit talking to their ex you would.

“Sell My Old Clothes, I’m Off To Heaven,” Saves the Day (Ed. Note: Blast does not encourage its readers to gouge their eyes out in order to win back a lover’s affection. If there’s anything that’s worse than being single, it’s being blind, permanently disfigured AND single.)
“Cry,” Faith Hill
“Again,” Janet Jackson
“The Scientist,” Coldplay
“I’m Alright,” Stereophonics
“Sleep Better,” Pete Yorn

Depression: Oh God it hurts. People go through breakups all the time, but no one has ever experienced the searing emotional pain that you are feeling right now. No. One. (Except all the people listed below)

“Nothing Compares 2 U,” Sinead O’Conner (Hey, healing through music sometimes comes at the expense of dignity.)
“Hide and Seek,” Imogen Heap
“I Can’t Be With You,” The Cranberries
“Somebody,” Depeche Mode
“One Year Six Months,” Yellowcard
“Picture,” Kid Rock and Sheryl Crow
“Breathe,” Melissa Etheridge
“Sleep,” Azure Ray
“Only Yesterday,” Taken By Trees
“Back to Black,” Amy Winehouse (If you’re stuck in a rut, just think – at least you’re not Amy Winehouse.)
“For No One,” The Beatles
“Dying,” Hole
“Country Feedback,” R.E.M.
“Over and Over Again,” Nelly feat. Tim McGraw
“You Were Meant for Me,” Jewel
“You Were Mine,” Dixie Chicks
“Title and Registration,” Death Cab for Cutie (Let’s face it, 90 percent of the songs in their catalog could fit into one or more of these categories. Take your pick.)
“Everything Reminds Me Of Her,” Elliott Smith

Acceptance:  Basically these are all female empowerment anthems. Maybe guys never get to this stage?

“I Will Survive,” Gloria Gaynor (or Cake’s rendition if there’s still a little lingering anger)
“Survivor,” Destiny’s Child
“Since U Been Gone,” Kelly Clarkson
“Landslide,” Fleetwood Mac
“Call It Off,” Tegan & Sara
“Not Big,” Lily Allen
“Glycerine,” Bush
“No More I Love Yous,” Annie Lennox
“The First Cut is The Deepest,” Sheryl Crow

Now it’s your turn, Blast readers! Which songs do you choose to be the soundtrack for your wallowing? Sound off below!

What no one should forget is that The Fireplace is romantic all year long. A recent visit — my first time here — was no exception. I hope.

The restaurant gives off melded feelings of youth and maturity. Boston Magazine recently awarded the restaurant for its brunch, but Fireplace’s reputation is as a dinner destination.

Despite the bounds of progress I’ve made in the last 10 years in adding food items to my personal repertoire, I’ve never tried mussels. That changed.

If you’ve never tried a mussel, it looks disgusting. But now’s not the time to look squeamish in front of a date. Prying this sliminess out of the familiar black shell, I plopped it in, chewed, and swallowed.

Yum. Yum? Yum.

Fireplace’s Cape Cod Mussels Steamed in a Lemon, Garlic & Toasted Almond Broth ($12) are delicious. Sadly, I can’t give you an official comparison to anything else yet. One of them did taste fishy, but the rest were buttery and neutral.

The Grilled Sirloin ($33) which could have been a little leaner but was cooked perfectly medium and very savory. The second dish is a bit of a mouthful to say in one breath: “Mustard Crusted Swordfish over Grilled Red Potatoes, Sautéed Leeks and Cherry Tomatoes w/Red Pepper-Bacon Vinaigrette & Crispy Onion Rings” ($28). It was a very mild fish, cooked just right.

Two things to check out are their cheese menu and their wine list. Dessert is $8, and though we were full, I’d be curious on a future visit to try the Apricot & Mulled Cider Crisp with Gingerbread Topping & Cinnamon Ice Cream. That just sounds amazing.

Atmosphere mixes with a rich menu and excellent service. We had a cozy corner table and everything.

Below, you’ll find some of this season’s hottest picks, for you girlfriend, boyfriend, mom, kids or whomever you may like. These are original ideas, that won’t hurt your bank account.

Her.

Looking to buy some intimate apparel that you and your girl can appreciate together, but not into Victoria’s Secret and high prices? Affinitas Intimates could be the solution for you. Sweet or sexy, Affinitas sells lingerie from 16 different collections from $8-45 . Headquartered in Los Angeles, the company’s French-design team creates all the pieces that are sold at select on-line stores nationwide.

Belli Skincare, specifically designed for pregnant women, new moms and babies, is the only skin care product in the world that is teratology screened, making it one of the safest products for prenatal care. The skin care line has products to treat stretchmarks, diaper rash, and dark under-eye circles from all of those sleepless nights rocking the baby to sleep. Visit the line’s website for more info, product listings, and to shop their different lines; belli pregnancy, belli baby and belli motherhood.

Whether you’re trying to swaddle a finicky baby and prevent it from crying or you’re hoping to keep your baby comfortable and warm for naptime, SwaddleDesigns has created special Valentine’s day-inspired blankets. SwaddleDesigns are stylish baby blankets, putting a fashionable spin on baby essentials, which make a perfect gift for new parents. Loved by celebrities, like Tori Spelling and the Jolie-Pitts, they also have everything from zzZip Me Sacks, stroller blankets, and bibs to organic cotton or cashmere blankets and gift sets.

If you’re looking to buy something outside of the realm of the bedroom for your lady, Yahoo has compiled a list of wallet-friendly traditional gifts too. Everything from earrings to perfume and flowers (even suggested bouquets) are listed.

Him.

For the special man in your life cologne and watches are always a nice gift, but trying something new is always more exciting. If your guy is a sports fan but tickets are expensive and hard to come by, try some television packages. Comcast offers an NFL Network, college sports packages, and just about every other sport you can think of -so your better half will never miss a game and be able to watch from the comfort of his own couch. Check your local listings for prices online, (packages cost about $100).

If your guy isn’t into sports, electronics have been on sale since the economy took a turn for the worst. Online and branch stores are offering great deals on DVDs, blu-ray disk players, digital cameras and more. If he is somewhat of a male fashionista, Karmaloop, the trendy clothing, sneaker and accessory line, is also having a 30 percent off sale. Their items are good enough for Kanye West so they will be good for your man too.

Looking for a couples gift or want to share something together? Call up your local hotel and ask about overnight or weekend couples packages. It’s the off-season for hotels, and with the economy still at a low-point, hotels are doing everything they can to attract business. Couples packages often include couples massages, restaurant deals and of course, champagne.

Finally, for the couple who might not want to work things out, a new voicemail service, slydial, will be ideal. Slydial allows you to connect directly to someone’s voicemail, skipping the waiting, the ringing and the risk of your ex answering. The creator of the product, MobileSphere, has applications for iPhones, Blackberrys, and Windows Mobile. Since it’s launch just 3 months ago, slydial has had more than one million calls placed through the service. Just dial 267-SLYDIAL and follow the prompts.

So how do most lesbians like to celebrate Valentine’s Day and what should you bestow upon your sweetheart to keep those flames burning? According to a third of the 1,700 lesbian respondents, the number one most wanted gift was a romantic weekend getaway.

If that’s out of the budget you could always consider the next two most popular wishes. Simply some loving kisses or, for something more rigorous, a full body massage with essential oils.  For those more inclined in the kitchen she’d probably be content with a home-cooked candlelight dinner, an option more favored than taking her out for a meal.

If none of the above appeal your lover, you are starting to get into dangerous waters.  The rest of the preferences were chosen by 5 percent or less, although it seems hard to argue with their choice,  who said they would love to receive a poem written just for them.

Surprisingly a dozen red roses, a champagne bubble bath or a box of chocolates are just not going to cut it. Forget the practical approach such as a hardware store gift certificate too, that will get you nowhere. And don’t even surprise her with a ring, only 2 percent of women chose that option.

So, all things considered, it seems you need to save your pennies, pack the lip balm and candles, and get your maps out to start planning that weekend trip. If you combine the top four most popular Valentine desires you will be golden.

Looking more like eHarmony than a modern racing game, Electronic Arts is using Burnout: Paradise in a new marketing campaign targeting couples — very appropriate for Valentine’s Day.

With a series of YouTube videos, EA is driving home the point that couples who play together stay together.

“Today, EA has released nine viral videos on YouTube that are a spoof of the online dating commercials we all know and love,” said EA’s Mariam Sughayer. “These ESRB-approved ads are designed to create buzz around the game’s online social gameplay, its unique “mugshot” feature and the open world racing of Paradise City. It is also a great example of new and innovative ways companies are reaching consumers in the web 2.0 world.”

One of EA’s marketing minds, Lincoln Hershberger created the ads, so be sure to send him a Valentine!

“Last year around this time I was criticizing and making fun of the Hallmark abused holiday of Valentine’s Day. The week before the day, to which some people refer to as “black (insert day of the week in which the holiday falls here),” I was not expecting anything big except for the typical card from my mom. I had no plans, no date, no nothing. When I got home after work I was surprised with a beautiful bouquet of tulips- and a note from a high school friend with whom I hadn’t spoken since graduation.

These were my first ever delivered flowers, and they were delivered on Valentine’s day. I was so happy, and so sad at the same time. I had been talking horrors about how people stress to show their love for others when they could just do it everyday without spending money on gifts, like flowers. Needless to say I fell in love with the holiday and with the true meaning behind it. Even if you can show someone you love them every other day, Valentine’s Day is that special time when a rose, a smile, a kiss, have a meaningful value because someone thought about you much more.

As Valentine’s nears this 2006 I am caught in the middle of wanting somebody to remember me, and staying away from being materialistic. Expecting presents was what I had criticized in the first place. Now, however, I realize that my day will be sad even if I end up with a rose, a smile, or a kiss. Because the person I think of does not think of me in return. I came to realize that all the times I criticized lover’s day I had been afraid of facing the truth, I was alone and I didn’t like it. Therefore, I decided to shun upon the day of love and friendship to repress my true feelings.

I don’t hate this holiday, I just hate the fact that the person I want to spend it with is already in a relationship. I hate the fact that I didn’t have the guts to say, “hey I like you” before; and I hate the fact that I can’t do anything about it now. This is what I believe is the reason behind the critiques of major holidays. Some people say it is a marketing campaign, but in reality they may not have the need to be marketed to and feel alienated. Well, I must face the facts.

Even if my platonic love is taken, I have friends and family who care for me. Even if I will be working, I can still relax by watching a romantic comedy that will give me hopes. Even if I dislike factors in my life, I must accept them and deal with them rather than masquerading them in vane.

To any fellow Valentine’s Day haters who are reading this, take a second to think about why you “hate” the celebration. Is it because you’ve been hurt? Maybe because you haven’t found love? Maybe you’ve never been loved? There’s hope, I’m an optimist. This Tuesday, February 14, 2006, leave your place happy and prepared to say, “hey I like you;” to life, to friends, to crushes, or to yourself.

In such a jolly holiday we should all be able to enjoy no matter what. In the meantime, I will buy a red shirt, a bag of lollipops, and smile during Valentine’s Day knowing that, in the words of the accurate and talented James Blunt, “I will never be with you.”

For example, in the US on February 2, Groundhog Day declares that winter’s end is or isn’t less then six weeks away. And in Brazil from February 2 through 5, Carnival declares a commitment of self-denial and commitment to God for the next 40 days. In the US on February 3, the Super Bowl declares the best team in football for the season. Mardi Gras is celebrated in the several countries to mark the end of the Christmas fortnight and the preparation of the Easter season. February 7 declares the Chinese New Year, and February is Black History Month.

Despite all that is declared during these 28 days, or 29 with the declaration of the leap year, they all pale to the declaration of love on February 14.

No matter who you are or if you believe that Valentine’s Day is a holiday made up to sell candy (cynic) or a true holiday of lovers (romantic) you can not deny the seduction and lure of a red heart filled with sweet treats.

This time is a really big time in relationships and how it is handled is (yes to my feminists I apologize but it is true) determined by the male partner. Please afford me a little stereotypical-ness, because I am speaking of traditions and historical behaviors. So if you see that you could be on of these types of guy or you are a woman with this type of man, and you want to make this year different and surprise her, I will include a few tips.

Let me ease the tension and say that you do not have to do this every year. Just like a woman will remember the bad things that you did for a long time, she will remember the good things even longer. So every few years do something great, but each year create a very sweet and romantic declaration that is all yours.

The Romantic Guy: you have a foothold on the sentimental and sensuous. The rose petals and candlelit dinners are all great and wonderful. To add to the phenomena try to find out things about her (by asking her not her friends or family) that you may have overlooked in the past. For example, when she is alone, what does she do? Does she like to read or knit…? Or is there some hobby that she used to have or would like to take up?

Make her a coupon book for twelve 1 hour intervals that she can spend uninterrupted by, kids or you to enjoy her interest or get her a subscription to a magazine that covers her topic. (This has an added bonus of a year long romantic notion that will do well for you in many positions, I mean ways!) If she likes the diamonds and all don’t skip it, just add a little something. It will be worth the effort.

The attire for this couple is all about the deep reds and pink, from lingerie to a formal dress. Dinner should be a slinky dress that emphasizes all of her assets. For him it should be a fitted dress tee and sport coat with slacks that emphasizes the gluts just a bit. (yes guys we are looking at your tushie too.)

The Got You Already Guy: you are clueless and need the most help of all. You think that because at some point you caught some unsuspecting woman off guard does not mean that your job is done for the rest of the relationship. Relationships require that what you do to get a girl is what you must do to keep her. So Valentine’s Day is the perfect time to show her that you value her in some way. Just showing up everyday is not enough. Take the sentimental journey and buy her the same type of flowers that you bought on your first date or take her to the restaurant that you met at or something like that. Then give her an affordable piece of jewelry that she can wear daily. This will remind her of that one time that you were so sweet to her and she will forgive you for being “stupid” and “taking her for granted again.”

This date night should be as dressy or as casual as the date that you are reincarnating. Keep the surprise intact (important for the best impact) just say we are going out on Valentine’s and you should dress like – then pick an outfit that you have seen her wear. Try to be vague and don’t have her in raggedy jean and a tee when she needs to have on great jeans and a hot top. She is going to want to feel beautiful to you that night so no wondering eyes!

Mr. Forgetful: you are very sweet indeed but forget the most important times to a woman. To avoid missing that important date plan ahead by pre-buying gifts for each occasion. There are stores that you can order from select a ship date that will have it to her on time. The big thing is do it while you are thinking about it. Forgetting is a very hurtful thing. The woman will believe that she is not important to you and that is why you just forgot!

Send her notes weeks in advance if you want to go out. Tell her how to dress and to call you with a sexy message before she starts to get ready for the date. This will serve as a reminder for you and get the romance started before you two even see each other for the date. One thing that Mr. Forgetful never forgets is how much he loves his woman and it always shows and this will be the best accessory for your date. She will start to feel as special to you as you know that she is. It will be magical!

Mr. It Is Just Another Day: you need a reality check. Yes everyday is just another day. But some days are special and even if she agrees with you (with her mouth) that it is just another day: she does not feel that way. If your woman likes to look nice then she wants to feel special. She wants that big bouquet of flowers to show up and something special at home waiting. Woman like everyone to know that they are loved and special and this is the day that you can make that happen. Sending flowers on non special occasions sends the wrong message (like, I’m sorry or I’m in the dog house).

You are not sticking it to the man, you are sticking it to you woman. To make both of you comfortable make it a casual date night. See a movie in or out in jeans or pajamas. If you don’t wear pajamas make a cute tee shirt for her and boxer briefs for you in the appropriate themed attire. Just make it special. She will never forget it.

Mr. Selfish: you are good hearted but going to a football game or hanging out with you and the boys at a sports bar is not a good Valentine’s date. Your relationship is about you and your woman not her and all of you all. Hanging out is great and the fact that she does not mind the gang is awesome and she is truly a rare find.

If Valentine’s fall out on hang out night, take her to an early dinner and do something romantic and give her the gifts that you have selected for her and then you both go hang out with the gang. She will have something to brag to her girls about and she will feel special the entire night. No matter how out of control you and the night may get, she will have that loving look in her eye.

Dress casual for this date. Jeans are perfect with a printed tee and a sweater. This will make her feel that you dressed up a little for the date but you will still feel great and not have to sacrifice a great night that you both enjoy anyway!

Remember this is a time to declare something. You are going to declare, she is mine or she is not. Whichever you decide do it in style.

Themed Presents:

I am a fan of putting together themed presents and when you find out how easy it is, you will be too! Let’s take the above gifts as examples.

• Cuddle Blanket paired with his favorite DVD, and a box of popcorn … a night at home is complete.
• Charging valet paired with a fun new gadget whether it’s a monogrammed money clip, or the IPod Nano he’s been eyeing, he’ll love the accessory he can store on his new organizer.
• A sexy piece of lingerie paired with a sex toy, box of condoms, Karma Sutra book and deliciously scented candle create a night of seduction at your fingertips.

For both of you:

Valentine’s Day is the perfect time to spice things up. Show off your inner vixen and have him loving this holiday…and you like never before.

Sexy Lingerie, $40.00 and up

It’s time to show off your body and buy a present that makes you feel beautiful. The delight he’ll take in seeing your confidence and of course hot undergarments will ignite his passionate side. Perhaps surprise him with a tantalizing strip tease, or if you’re daring, come over wearing just your “present” underneath your coat.

Sex Toys, $15.00 and up

Whether you’re a long time fan of sex toys or want to try something new in the bedroom, surprising your man with a new plaything could be the best Valentine’s Day gift he’s ever received. The Internet provides a plethora of toys for anyone’s imagination and it also allows you to remain anonymous.

Show him you can be both naughty and nice this February 14th.

Developed for this Valentine’s Day season, King’s Hawaiian –the nation’s leading and original producer of Hawaiian Sweet bread — has compiled a series of tips and recipes to complement romantic homemade dinners with some island-style elegance.

1. Create a unique dining experience — Try to surprise that special someone by situating the dinner table in a unique area of your home. Place your table in front of the fireplace or try starting dinner a little earlier and find a window-view location where you both can enjoy the sunset. This can create restaurant-style ambiance within the comforts of your home.
2. Set the mood — It’s all about creating the perfect ambiance, so dim the lights and light some candles. The soothing glow of a candle can easily warm the heart.
3. Decorate with emotion in mind — When decorating the dinning area make sure to use the right colors. Red and pink are the ideal option, as they capture and stimulate emotion. Also, scatter flower petals over the table to create that perfect romantic touch. To create island-style elegance, use tropical flowers instead of roses, such as hibiscus and anthuriums (if well chosen, both will also capture the red and pink color profile).
4. Present a gift from the heart — Heartfelt gifts create lasting memories. Create a photo album of your fondest destination memories shared with your valentine and present it during dinner. Include photos from your favorite vacation spot, or somewhere you hope to travel to together. Your special someone is sure to be impressed by the effort of a gift that expresses sentiment and emotion.
5. End the perfect evening with a little chocolate — Nothing is more enchanting than ending the night on a sweet note. Pair your favorite fruit with chocolate fondue, or prepare a unique dessert dish and garnish it with an edible flower — a touch that is sure to make the night unforgettable.

If you are in need of a delicious recipe, try one of these easy-to-prepare delights from King’s Hawaiian:

King’s Hawaiian Chocolate Paradise Panini

Ingredients:

13-ounce jar of hazelnut chocolate spread
1 jar chunky peanut butter
Mini-marshmallows
1 16-ounce round loaf, King’s Hawaiian Sweet Bread

Preheat your panini sandwich press. Cut 1/2-inch thick vertical slices into the King’s Hawaiian round loaf. Evenly layer peanut butter on one slice and the chocolate hazelnut spread on the other. Distribute an even layer of marshmallows and place the halves together. Place sandwich into the press and, depending on the heat, remove after two to four minutes. Cut into halves or thirds. — Serve immediately. Makes 8-10 dessert sandwiches.

King’s Hawaiian Chocolate Bread Pudding

Ingredients:

6 cups (about half of 16-ounce. loaf) King’s Hawaiian Sweet Bread, lightly packed 1/2-inch cubes
2 1/2 cups half-and-half
1 1/2 cups (9 ounces.) semi-sweet chocolate chips
4 large eggs
1/4 cups granulated sugar
1 teaspoon vanilla
1/8 teasoon. salt

Heat half-and-half in 2-quart saucepan over medium heat until small bubbles form around edge. Remove from heat, stir in chocolate, mix until melted. Cool slightly. Whisk together eggs, sugar, vanilla and salt. Fold 1 cup cooled chocolate into egg mixture. Stir in remaining chocolate until blended. Pour chocolate mixture over bread cubes and mix until bread is well coated. Cover and let stand at room temperature for 30 minutes. Lightly apply non-stick spray to six 6-ounce custard cups. Mound bread equally into each cup. Place cups on baking sheet. Bake in preheated 325 degree F oven 35 to 40 minutes or until knife inserted in center comes out nearly clean. Best served warm with chocolate or vanilla sauce. (A greased 8 by 8 by 2-inch pan may be substituted.) Bake 40 to 45 minutes in preheated 325 degree oven. Makes 6 servings.

Royal Hawaiian Tiramisu

Ingredients:

3/4 cup cold espresso or strong coffee
2/4 cup coffee liqueur
1 package (8 ounces) cream cheese, softened
2 packages (3.4 ounces) instant vanilla pudding mix
3 cups half-and-half
3 tablesopon. amaretto liqueur
4 ounces semisweet chocolate bar, finely chopped
1 16-ounce loaf of King’s Hawaiian Sweet Bread

Topping:

1 1/2 cups whipping cream
1/2 cup powdered sugar
1 teaspoon vanilla
1/4 cup sliced almonds, toasted

Blend espresso with coffee liqueur. Set aside. Beat cream cheese with electric mixer until smooth. On low speed, slowly add pudding mix, half-and-half and amaretto. Beat one minute until blended. Set aside. Trim off 1 inch of bread dome to make level. Cutting horizontally, slice remaining loaf into three equal layers. To assemble cake, place the top slice into the bottom of an 8- or 9-inch springform pan. Drizzle 1/3 of espresso mixture evenly over first layer. Top with 1/3 of pudding mixture and then 1/4 of chocolate. Repeat layering with remaining 2 bread slices. Cover with plastic wrap and refrigerate 4 hours or overnight.

Topping:
Remove rim from pan. Whip cream with powdered sugar and vanilla until fluffy. Spread over top and sides. Garnish top with almonds and remaining chocolate.

Makes 12 servings.

Courtesy of ARAcontent

The Valentine’s Date Outfit Guide for Her

For an upscale affair, the little black dress is always a winner. Want a spicy, jaw-dropping look that will make that special someone notice you? Make it caliente with red, which is commonly looked upon as the color of love and passion. You will stand out in a room swarming with little black dresses. For this type of affair, keep the outfit traditional but add accessories to give it a special touch. For example, turn a hot necklace into a belt, wear appropriate but awesome shoes and carry an over-the-top purse. Make it your outfit, not the designer’s.

A casual chic affair, like a club or classy restaurant has much fewer restrictions, but let the jeans stay home tonight. Step it up a bit by wearing form-fitting fabrics that bring out your feminine charm. This date is about him being the man and you being the woman. The right clothes will give you a really flirty approach to the evening and you’ll have a great time. Love comes when you least expect it, so just enjoy the evening and let the chips fall where they may.

On a casual date, pair a sexy low-cut top of a soft, feminine color with the most flattering jeans you can find. Finish the look with amazing black pumps. The silhouette that you create will give you a taller, slimmer look. No one will be able to resist staring at this fabulous you. Couple it with a fashionable handbag and a pair of sunglasses.

The Valentine’s Date Outfit Guide for Him

Upscale, black-tie events for a man require a suit or tux. There is no way around it! Make yourself stand out with red accessories. If you have the personality to pull off wearing red shoes, it might get you the girl that likes that sort of thing. Select a cologne that smells great on you, this will definitely give you added sex appeal.

A man on a casual/chic date should wear dress slacks, a crew neck shirt and leather slip-on shoes as a foundation. A button-down shirt on top of the crew neck creates the boy next door look. A blazer for a power look, and a leather jacket makes for a bad boy look. Prefer a more urban feel? Add a ¾ length jacket. This creates a place to start that has endless possibilities. The tailored jeans are still in, and a nice jacket will complete the look.

The accessories that you select makes all the difference in the world: choose a Tag Heuer or Fossil watch, a platinum ring and a belt and shoe color that match and you’re good to go.

Casual date attire begins with jeans and a white t-shirt, and you build from there. This is a great foundation to achieve a variety of looks. Adding a button-down shirt with just the bottom few closed will get you a preppy look. Add an oversized button-down to get a street look. You can go with a black leather jacket and black square toe slip-on shoes for a more manly look.

Decide what look that you want to have and add the accessories that make the grade. Eyewear/sunglasses can add a certain level, if that’s what you’re going for. She’ll be trying hard to impress you, so try to match the effort.

Blush Group LLC, provides its customers with ‘the art of sensual living’. Is this group the sponsor of the gift club or what? Creator Miller Canning’s idea was to design products that make her customers feel good. In addition to selling sex-related items, she offers gifts like sweet smelling soaps, bubble baths and an urban strip aerobics DVD led by a fitness expert.

“Our company tries to stay away from novelty items and focus on helping women and couples find quality products to enhance their sex lives,” said Canning.

Blush’s gift clubs are its signature items and have become the pillar of its success. Blush’s initial club, The Dirty Book Club, provides customers with a new, erotic book each month. While The Dirty Book Club satisfies customers’ reading pleasures, The Sexy Gift of the Month Club, provides customers with a sexy surprise to look forward to.

Imagine receiving a present every month that delights one of the five senses. Blush offers four, different packages of sexy gifts to bring excitement into the bedroom. Choose from the “Mood Setter” ($35.00), “Romantic Surprises” ($40.00), “Erotic Adventures” ($50.00), or “Premium” ($115.00). After starting the club in December 2005, the club has earned fans.

“I think the club appeals to anyone who wants to explore their sexuality, but is nervousabout going into a public store where they can be seen,” said Canning. “Also, I think people who view sex as play and sensuality as something that is on the inside aremore apt to choose the club.”

On the other hand, the Sexy Gift of the Month Club seeks to help customer’s become more open to their sexuality.

“It’s a great opportunity to not be responsible for pushing a partner to try something that he or she normally might not have tried. A recipient can just say, ‘hey, it’s here, so let’s try it.’ We give them the freedom to test boundaries with little embarrassment or guilt,” added Canning.

With household sex toy parties on the rise and more and more people becoming interested in freely expressing their sexuality, the Sexy Gift of the Month Club provides a new outlet for eroticism.

“Typically people order 3-6 months, but we love the folks who re willing to try new products for a year. I think you get more variety and many more options to explore,” said Canning. Best sellers include the “Original Rabbit Pearl,” ($78.00) “Lily,” ($134.00) “Accuvibe,” ($68.00) as well as “O’My Natural Lubricant” ($16.50/$26.50) and a striptease dance DVD, “Strip To It” ($24.00).

“When I watch an Oprah show that is covering sexuality I listen to her audience and see how well our products map to their needs,” said Canning.

The Sexy Gift Club of the Month aspires to make every day feel like Valentine’s Day and every relationship feel exciting and sensual.

“Imagine a surprise once a month that reminds you to slow down…or speed up,” said Canning.

Something that captured the essence of V-Day and the hype over finding the right gift and booking the correct restaurant. We wanted to change it up.

So we had our models fight.

Enjoy.

Captions/text by John Guilfoil, photos by Aram Boghosian, both of the Blast Magazine staff